YOU ARE CAPABLE EVEN WHEN NO ONE BELIEVES IN YOU.

It is natural for us to seek support from the people around us, especially when we starting to take decisions that seem scary.

When people believe in us, it feels us with more hope because we start to believe that they see great potential.

Even when you have the confidence yourself, there is motivation in knowing that there is someone else either than you you who believes in you too.

The problem though is that not all of us have the pleasure to have someone close to us believe in the things that we want to do, some of us just have people who criticize us and demotivate the fighting spirit inside you.

This makes it really hard for us to move forward with what we wish to do because we start to wonder why these people demotivated us, we start to question our abilities and we end up doubting ourselves.

When this feeling starts kicking in, you need to remember one thing, your ability to achieve something is not dependent on what people say.

People don't know your capabilities as much as you don't know theirs. Nobody has an X-ray that could see pass today into the future. You need to let go of the thought that people know more about what can happen in the future than you.

They might tell you that you won't make It, or you will most likely fail or that it is not worth it for you to try. When people say these things its because they judging themselves, not you.

They look at themselves and see that if they were to try what you want to try, they couldn't achieve it. So they conclude that just because they don't see themselves achieving It, you also can't achieve it too.

Stop seeking validation from other people.

Validate yourself.

 

Motivate you. 

Keep moving.

They might not be cheering for you now, but they will definitely celebrate your Win.